Is challenging yourself. Deep or wide. The deep guys pick a thing and although they get good at it, they keep challenging themselves, they go deeper. The wide guys go at many things, learn them in chunks, and thrive on the knowledge of the collective. Neither is wrong, but you need to know what suits you. You should consider going deep first, then wide as you grow.
Is understanding that life is in perspective and most things are not one-sided and listening is a superpower.
Is setting goals and making plans and pursuing them and repeating the process.
Is connecting with people that are already better and people that seek to be.
Is to keep going.