Something to help you grow

3 reminders and 3 questions

Olabanji Stephen
1 min readMay 5, 2022

Let’s start with the reminders.

1. You are enough

2. You are right where you need to be

3. Where you are (right now) leads right where you want to be and you’ll figure it out.

Now, the questions

1. How did I get here?

What events, relationships, and actions got you to where you are right now? No regrets, no blames. Just acknowledge them and be grateful for the experience and the lessons.

2. What really stupid things am I doing?

Sit for a few minutes to think! And make a list because you should stop those. Gradually.

Growth doesn’t only come from things we start doing, oftentimes, it's enough to just stop doing the stupid stuff.

3. What can I do now?

You might want to do this with someone, join a community, find a mentor or start all by yourself, either way, get down to the things that might help you grow, make progress and ultimately make you the kind of person you’d be proud of.

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Olabanji Stephen
Olabanji Stephen

Written by Olabanji Stephen

I see the world differently and attempt to interpret it in ways that inspire genius

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